Getting Started On The Sugar Daddy Website

sugar photo Hey there! Welcome to my first ever blog where I write about my experiences as a sugar baby (and a married sugar baby at that). I’m not sure where to start with this, so lets just start with the beginning! But first, I should talk about my marriage. We were married just shy of a year when I decided to join the Seeking Arrangments. We were and still are happily married, but I’m hiding this huge secret from him and I don’t think I will ever be able to tell him. He was my first boyfriend and I was his first girlfriend. Neither of us have even kissed or held hands with anyone else. We lost of virginity to each other on our honeymoon and I wouldn’t have wanted it any other way. But, he is extremely clingy and we even take 99% of our showers together, so that should tell you how attached he is. I love him, but I think because I’ve never been with anyone else, I was curious to see if any other guys were interested at all in me. I will refer to my husband from now on as “Zach”.

I was watching a documentary through Netflix on the Ashley Madison (one of those names are my first name) hack and it brought up the website Seeking Arrangements and it caught my attention. They were talking about how so many students right now were becoming sugar babies to get through college and how they were making so much money doing so. For many of them, this was their only source of income and didn’t have to work multiple jobs or take out student loans like the rest of us. I thought “hmm, hang out with a rich guy that is a few decades older than me and make enough to get me through college when I go back? Sign me up!” As soon as the documentary ended, I checked it out for myself to see what all the hype was about. I signed up, made a killer “describe myself” and uploaded some of my favorite pictures of myself (that may have been four plus years old, but I didn’t look much different). I also made sure I stated that I was married for all to see. For my profile picture, I uploaded a picture of my face (no cleavage) and saved the pictures of my body for the other photos and even a bikini picture for my private photo (taken on my honeymoon in Jamaica, how ironic) that guys would need to request to see.

I forgot about it for the next day and checked my inbox and looked to see how many people viewed my profile. I wasn’t sure what to expect, but I knew that I didn’t want to be a real sugar baby that has to meet any of these old geezers and physically cheat on my husband. Anyways, I checked my inbox and had about ten messages and about 30 favorites on my profile! I was thrilled! It had been less than 24 hours and I already had all these guys willing to pay me for my time! I look through each of the messages one by one just feeling great that I had guys interested in me. (At this time, I was not interested in being a sugar baby and just wanted to see if guys were interested in me and/or attracted to me). Each of them were telling me how beautiful and gorgeous I was. There was even one guy that offered me $50,000 for a year of being his sugar baby! That was flattering, but it didn’t change my mind and I turned him down. I talked to a couple of guys that made me feel good about myself, but I wasn’t planning on meeting with any of them. I would tell them the truth that I didn’t want to meet with them, let alone, have sex with them, and they would stop talking to me. I only talked to them on the website and didn’t give them any other way to contact me, until I met, let’s call him “Kevin”.

Kevin messaged me asking if I wanted an online arrangement meaning I send him nudes and he pays me for them. He said that he was on the road a lot so he didn’t have time for a traditional relationship so he would just have online arrangements with girls. He also lived far away so he wasn’t interested at all in actually meeting me. He would pay me $50 through PayPal every five photos I sent and I didn’t ever have to send really naughty ones. I gave him my Snapchat username and we communicated through that. (It would be tougher to hide everything from Zach if I gave Kevin my phone number.) He was happy with what I sent him and I loved our arrangement because I wasn’t actually cheating on Zach, although I did feel bad at first because that was the closest to cheating I’ve ever gotten. I changed my profile on Seeking Arrangements to only looking for online arrangements because I didn’t have to cheat on my husband and I still got payed for it. The only problem was Kevin was only available at nights after he got off work, but at that time of the day Zach was home as well and wouldn’t give me any time alone. I wouldn’t often get the chance to send Kevin any pictures because Zach was always right there. Also, I ran out of nude poses to do for Kevin, but he would reassure me that I was perfect and I could repeat poses if I wanted to because he liked me that much. I wouldn’t consider Kevin a sugar daddy, but he was the first guy I got money from on SA.

Thanks for reading and I hope you enjoyed it! I know in my last post I said I would talk about meeting my first sugar daddy, but I think I will save that for next time. I would love to hear from you with any questions or comments you may have for me. Thank you!


My Introduction To You

Hello there! This is my first blog, but I really wanted to share my continuing experiences as a sugar baby and answer any questions you may have about the lifestyle. A little bit about me: I’m 21 years old, I live in a small town in Indiana, and I’m married. I’m not currently in school, but I would love to go back when the timing is right. I have three sugar daddies at the moment and I hope to post every week or two, depending  how much I have to share with you or focus towards any questions you may have.

Being a sugar baby is very controversial and many people don’t even know exactly what it is. Most people would explain it as a young, attractive female that in exchange for companionship (and 99% of the time: sex) would, in return, would receive money, gifts, and travel. I would describe it like a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship with money involved and a lot of time, travel. In my case, I can’t go on exquisite trips with these guys because I would need  to come up with a really good excuse for my husband. For me, I can (where my husband doesn’t question it) go out every week to meet one of my sugar daddies. I also can’t spend the night with any of them. I have three of sugar daddies right now, so, unfortunately, I only get to see each of them once a month and take that last week off to keep my husband happy. He says I go out to often and I stay out too late, but he soon gets over it.

All three of my sugar daddies know I’m married and know that my husband doesn’t know. They still chose to pursue me and they know my limitations (I can’t go on trips or spend the night).

You would think that every sugar daddy is an old, creepy, rich guy that just wants to get laid and pay for it. That is a common misconception and that is not how it really is, most of the time. Sure, there are many sugar daddies like that, but there are so many other guys to choose from. Also, most of these guys want more of a girlfriend type relationship, where the baby goes on trips and dinners with the daddy and sex is expected most of the time, which leads me to my next point. Sex isn’t always a part of the arrangement because every arrangement is different (though I have no experience with this type of arrangement). These guys that are looking for a strictly platonic relationship are hard to find though, so don’t get your hopes up. There are also guys on Seeking Arrangements that want just sex, but that is not the job of a sugar baby. Those guys are looking for a prostitute, and a lot of girls on the site are just that.

You’re probably curious about how I manage being married and this lifestyle that I’ve chosen. Well, he doesn’t know and I don’t plan on telling him. A few months ago, when I was thinking about joining Seeking Arrangements, I asked my husband if he would let me be a sugar baby and of course, he was very much against it. He didn’t even know what exactly what that was. I just told him that I would meet guys for a date and I would get payed for it (even though I knew that most of the guys I would meet would expect more.) He still disagreed with me, saying that he wouldn’t want another guy going on dates with me and treating me like a girlfriend. I understood his logic, but I joined the site anyways.

Thank you for reading! On my next post, I’ll explain my first encounter with my first sugar daddy and how my goals on the site changed. I’d be happy to hear any suggestions for posts and I’ll be happy to answer any questions you may have!